This morning I went to my third and final Harvest Festival of the year. Once your children get to school, you don't do these things once - oh no... once is for wimps!
The first of these was Joel's. Years one and two in school trek off to the local parish church; sing some songs, and listen to a chat from the vicar there. All good fun. I particularly enjoyed not having a squirming toddler on my knee. In years gone by, I have been the parent chasing a wiggly and noisy toddler about whilst everyone else is trying to hear their pride and joy say their one line in the school production. It was nice to not have to think about taking enough toys / snacks / nappies to get through thirty minutes, plus the always-longer-than-you-think waiting for something to actually happen time. I also particularly enjoyed the kids singing 'Cauliflowers fluffy'; with additional dance moves. Marvellous.
The second Harvest Festival was actually a harvest / thanksgiving / 1st birthday service at our church (how's that for multi-tasking?!) Our congregation have been meeting in the local primary school for a year now. It was a good chance to celebrate all that has happened over the last year; and to thank God for all He has given us individually and corporately. We did this through the medium of huge ice-cream Sundaes, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, singing, bacon sandwiches and prayers of thanks chalked on the playground. We have learnt a lot over the past year, and look forward to what God has for us in the years to come. I'm sure God would have us dream big dreams for our future together; after all, as Bill Hybels would say: "The local church is the hope of the world".
My third and final part of my Harvest Festival trilogy was this morning. The Nursery and Reception age children aren't traipsed down to the church - they do their celebrating in the school Hall. They all came in wearing headbands with certain vegetable pictures attached; Nathan was a cabbage... They told us the story of Oliver's Vegetables; where a small boy searches his Grandad's vegetable patch in the hope of finding some potatoes to make some chips; in the process, he finds lots of other vegetables, which of course turn out to be very tasty... My favourite part of the proceedings had to be the rousing rendition of 'Big Red Combine-Harvester'. They were brilliant.
So what have I learnt from my Harvest Trilogy? Well, I've certainly learnt that it's hard to pick songs that are perky tunes, fun for the kids and that actually thank God for the amazing things he gives us. What's your favourite harvest song? My personal favourite is probably 'Blackberries in the Hedges', but no-one around here seems to know that one...
Also, and I know this makes me sound old, but there is always something to be thankful for. I think whether it's the joy on a child's face as he sings, the fact that you don't have to worry about wiggly toddlers, or something bigger like the sun and the rain that help things grow. God has given us so many things, and I think it does our perspective and mental health endless good to be grateful. Life might not always be easy (I know, no surprises there) and I'm not advocating pretending life is all shiny when it isn't; however, I know I'm more likely to be content if I focus on the multiple blessings from my heavenly Father than on the things that bug me, or that I don't have.
Today, try to cultivate (ooh, appropriate gardening term alert... pleasing!) an Attitude of Gratitude. What are you thankful for?
Today, I have decided to be thankful for my boy being clingy. He doesn't want to be with ANYONE else - every minute must be spent in my arms. People have been commiserating all day with the frustration side of it, but whilst it is frustrating (especially when wanting to drink coffee or have a wee), I know that it won't always be like this, and that the time will come when I have to wrestle a kiss and a cuddle out of him. So I am treating the clingy boy with an 'attitude of gratitude' - let's face it, he's going to be clingy whether I'm happy about it or not, so why choose to be grumpy?
ReplyDeleteThat said....I am also thankful for my baby sling!